Sabtu, 13 Oktober 2007

LOVE IS SPECIAL

iT huRts tO loVe somEonE anD noT bE loveD in reTurn,,buT whAt is moRE pAinful iS to loVe somEonE anD nEveR finD thE couRage to lEt thAT pErsoN knoW hoW yoU feEl

mAybE GOD waNTs uS to mEet a few wRoNg pEoplE bEfoRe mEetinG thE riGht onE so thAt whEn we finAlly mEet thE riGht pERsoN,,we will kNow hoW to bE gRAtefuL foR thAT giFt

loVE iS whEn yoU takE awaY thE feeliNg,,thE pAssion,,anD thE romAnce in a relAtionShip anD finD ouT yoU sTill caRe foR that pERsOn..

A saD thinG in liFe is whEn yoU mEet somEonE who meanS a loT to yoU,,onLy to finD ouT in thE enD that iT waS nEveR meanT to bE anD yoU juSt hAve to lEt go..

whEn thE doOr oF hAppinEss cloSes,,anoTher opEns,..buT oFten timEs we loOk so lonG aT thE cloSed doOr thAt wE doN't seE thE onE whiCh hAs bEen opEned foR us..

thE best kinD of fRienD is thE kinD yoU caN siT on pOrcH anD sWing wiTh,,nEveR saY a woRd,,anD thEn walK awaY feelinG likE iT waS thE bEst conVersaTion yoU've eVer hAd..

iT's tRue thAt wE don't knoW whAt we've goT unTil we loSe iT,,buT iT's alSo tRue that wE don'T knOw whAt wE've bEen miSsinG unTil iT aRriveS..

giVinG somEonE all youR love is nEveR an aSsuRAnce thAT tHey'll loVE yoU bAck!!doN't eXpeCt loVe in reTurn,,juSt waiT foR iT to gRow iN thEir hEart buT iF iT doEsn't,,bE conTent iT gRew in yoUrs..

thEre aRe thinGs yoU'd loVe to hEar thAt you wouLd nEveR hEar fRom thE pErsoN whoM you woulD likE to hEar thEm fRom,,buT don't bE so deAf as noT to hEar iT fRom thE onE wHo saYs iT fRom hiS heArt..

nEver saY goOdbYe iF yoU sTill waNT to tRy..

nEveR giVe up iF you sTill feel yoU can go oN..

nEveR saY yoU don'T loVE a pErsoN aNy moRe iF yoU can'T let gO..

love coMes to thOse whO sTill hope alThouGh thEy've bEen disApPoinTed,,,
tO thOse wHo sTill bElieVe,alThouGh thEy've bEen bEtrayEd,,,
tO thoSe wHo sTill nEed to loVe,alThouGh thEy've bEen huRt bEfoRe,,,
anD to thoSe wHo hAve thE couRage anD faiTh to buiLd tRusT aGain..

iT takEs onLy a minuTe to geT a cRush oN somEonE
aN houR to likE somEonE
anD a daY to loVE soMeonE
---buT iT takEs a lifetimE to foRget soMeonE..

dOn't go foR loOks,,thEy caN deCeiVE..
doN't go foR wEalth,,eVEn thAt faDes aWAy..gO foR somEonE whO mAkes yoU smilE bEcAuse iT takEs onLy a smilE to mAke a daRk daY seEm bRighT..

dREam whAt yoU waNt to dReam,,
go whEre yoU wanT to gO,,
bE whAt yoU waNT to bE,..
bEcauSe yoU hAve onLy onE liFe anD onE chAnce to dO all thE thinGs yoU waNT to dO..

mAy yoU have enOugh hAppinEss to mAke yoU sWeeT,,
enOugh tRials to mAke yoU sTronG,,
enoUgh soRrow to kEep yoU huMan,,
anD enoUgh hoPe tO mAke yoU hAppY..

alWayS puT youRselF in oThEr's shoEs..iF yoU feel thAT iT huRts yoU,,iT pRobAbly huRts thE pErsoN too..

a caReless woRd mAy kinDle sTrife..a cRuel woRd mAy wRecK a liFe..a timEly woRd mAy leVel sTress..a loVinG woRd mAy hEal anD bLess..

thE bEginniNG oF loVe is to lEt thoSe we loVE bE juSt thEmselveS,,anD noT tWist thEm wiTh ouR oWn omAge--oTherwiSe,wE loVe onlY thE reflEctioN oF ouRselveS we finD in thEm..

thE hAppiEst oF pEoplE doN't nEcessaRily hAve thE bEst oF eVErythinG..thEy juSt mAke thE mOst of eVeRythinG thAt coMes alonG thEir waY..

whEn yoU wEre boRn,,yoU weRe cRyinG anD eVEryonE aRounD you waS smilinG...liVE yoUr life so thAt whEn yoU die,,yoU're thE onE who is smilinG anD eVeryonE aRounD yoU is cRyinG..

thE bRighTesT fuTure will alWays bE bAsed on a foRgoTten pASt,,yoU can't geT oN well in life unLEss yoU lEt go oF youR pasT failuRes anD hEartachEs..



-auThoR unKnowN-


iNi guE kEtik ulAng daRi sebuAh buku...^^
bukunyA guE bEli di chinA...
jadi judUlnyA jUGA bahaSa mANdaRin...
so,,gag uSAh guE kEtik yAkhh juDulnyA apahh...
hUEhehehe...


-wEnZ-

Jumat, 12 Oktober 2007

~iF you fail,,don'T foRgeT to lEarn youR lEsson~

aDA saTu pERtanyAan kliSE..
"kEnApa pEnyesalAn selAlu daTengnyA bElakaNGAn??"

kAlo mEnurut guE pRibAdi,,
jAwabAnnyA sebEnernyA simpLe..
"kArna kAlo PENYESALAN daTEngnyA duluAn aliAS sebElom sesuaTu hAl terJAdi,,guE rasa juDulnyA bukAn PENYESALAN tapi PENCEGAHAN.."
hEHe..

taPi eVEn guE punyA jAwaBAn se-simplE iTuu..,,teTEp aj guE seRing bErtanya" kEnApa gue MAsiy seRing ngErasain pEnyesalAn itu..
-->apA karnA guE adaLah oRg yG gag mikiR panjAng dalAm bErbuAt seSuatu??

kaDAng guE mAlah nGErasa,,gUE kbAnyakaN mikiR kalo mo nGElakuin seSuatu..
kEcuAli pAS emoSi yakhh...hAha..
kAlo ini siyy gag pAke mikiR pAnjANg..
nAhh...ini salAh saTu yAng mo dibAHas kAyaknYA...
bElajar konTrol emoSi..!!
kArna kAdaNG",,emoSi iTu lAh yAng nimBulin pEnyesalAn pada akhiRnyaa..

guE nuliS ini,,kArna guE nGErasa kAlo guE punyA bEberapA pEnyesalAn *tadinYA*..

kArna aDA saTu hari,,dimAna gW smpEt mEngeluH kE nykp..gw nyEsel nGejAlanin seSuatu yAng gag guE mAu..gw nyEsel gag nGelAwan sebiSa guE nGelawan..guE nYEsel hArus niNGgAlin apA yAng ada di koTA guE teRcinTA a.k.a JakArTa..

pAdAhal seblom gUE nGElaksaNAin 'kEluhAn' iTu,,gw smpEt nGobRol mA temEn gw,,n dY blG,"jGn giTU lahh..taR nykp lo sakiT ati.."
tapii,,dGn boDohnyA gue teTEp nGElakSanain 'kEluhan' tadi..
huff,,
kEmudian tepAT seteLah guE nGElakuin iTu,,guE nGerasa nyEsel..
kArna guE nGErasain daRi nAda nGOmonG nykp,,kAlo bEliau kEsel..T.T


disAmpinG pEnyesalAn" guE iTuhh,,
guE mALah nGEdapEtin senTilan lAen..
teRnyata guE nGEdapETin pElajaran bErharga bGt!!!

adA saTu kAlimAt yAng guE inGEt bAnget daRi temEn guE bERiniSial "L"
diA biLANg,,"yAa..bokAp guE kAN gag mnGkin nGEracuNIn anAknyA senDiri,,wen..."
*plAkk...*
nGErasa teRtampAr??
iyAa..

guE pikiR,,bENer juGA...
muNGKin iTu lAh oRanG tua,,
selALu iNGin yAng terbAik buAt anAk"nya walAupUn blOm tenTu caRA mErekA diteRima saMa anAknyA..
iTu lAh oRangtuA,,
selAlu NGEbukA geRbang mAav buAt anAKnya sebEsaR apApun salAh anAk"nyA..

inTi daRi apA yAng guE pElAjari,,
guE mencoBA unTuk nGEliat daRi sisi lAen ajAhh..
muNGkin emAnk tadinyA guE gag mAu diSini,,
buT,,man...guE mnjAdi salAh saTu oRg yG bErunTunG karna nGedapEtin kesempAtan sTudy abRoad n bElajar salAh saTu bAhasa inTernAsionAl jG..
eVEn gw ninGgalin temEn" gue yAng di InDo,,tapi muDAh"an pErsaHabatan kiTA teTEp biSA di kEep...dan kiTA biSA teteP keEp conTAct..
anGgp aJa ini salAh saTu ujiAn daRi reLationShip kiTAhh..^^
dann guE gag bENer" niNGgalin semuAnyA kann??
4 taOn lAgii,,diSaAt guE luluS,,guE muNGkin akAn pulAng dGn kEbanggAan guE sebAgai oRg inDonEsia saTu"nyA di kAmpuS guE..muDAh"an guE pun nGedapEtin niLai yAng bAik...minimAl buAt nGebAnggain diRi guE senDIri dan nGEbAnggAin oRtu,soDAra,temEn" gw dan Indonesia..
guE ngErasa,,gue punyA kEwajiBan jG buAt nGebAnggAin IndoNEsia.,,spY oRg luAr,,gag mEmanDAng oRg inDonEsia dGn sebElah mAta lAgii..^^


daN aDA saTu ceRita yAng guE BAca daRi buku "Don't SweAt Small Stuff" karya Richard Carlson..

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rePorteR : (ke pEkerja 1) apA yAng anDa kErjakAn??
pEkerja 1 : huhh..sy tiDAk aDA bEdanyA dGn sEorg buDak,,seoRg tukAng bAtu yG dibAyar sGt renDAhh yAng mEnghAbiskAn hAri"nyA hAnya dGn mEmasanG bAtubAta diaTas batubAta lAin..
repoRteR : (ke pEkerJa 2) apA yAng anDA kErjakan??
pEkeRja 2 : sy oRg yG pAling BErunTunG di duniA ini..sy ikuD seRta dlm mEmbAnGun kArya aRsitekTur yG saNGAt pEntinG dan inDAh ini..sy mEmbAntu mEngubAh poTongan-poTongan bAtubata yG sederhanA ini mEnjadi mAhakarya yG luAR biAsa.."
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???
duA oRg dGn duA jAwabAn yG bErbEda...
dan buAT nGejAlanin iDup ini,,
gue rAsa LEbih enAk bErpikiRAn kAyak si pEkerjA 2..

eVEn lo nGErasa sakIT aTo apa,,
cobA ajA ceRita kE oRg lAen,,
dan bikin ceRita iTu teRKesAn luCu..^^
kArnA,,NGEliat oRg lAen teRsenyUm,,akAn mEnjAdi keseNenGAn yAng lAen lagi buAt lo senDiri...


muNgkin iTu diA yAng biSA guE bagi..
diSaaT kiTa nGErasa suSAh dalEm nGAdepin seSuaTu,,
cobA lAh buAT mikiR daRi suDut pAndanG yAng bErbeDA..
kArna daRi suDut pAndaNG yAng bErbeDA,,kiTA biSa nGEdapEtin hAl" yAng bErbeDA juGA..
aTo lo biSA bErbAgi ceRita sama temEn" oR sahAbat lo,,
guE yAkin,,,sahAbat yang bAik gag akAn niNGgalin saHabatnyA juGA kok...
hEhe,,

daN saTu lAgii,,,
"iF you fail,don't forget to lEarN youR lesSon.."


-wEnZ-